It is said that pairs are made in heaven and marriages are executed on earth. In ancient period marriages decision were taken by elder person’s in the house, but now a day’s as teenager’s cross their teens they take decision by their own. As they believe that they are mature enough to decide better for their life. Marriages in past were as religious ceremony but now a days it has become as if show off of status and standard of living.
Arrange marriages are just loosing its importance. In ancient period marriages were arranged by elders and there was no system of meeting a groom before marriage but as time passes certain beliefs also changed with time. Now arrange marriages take place but the decision is taken by boy and girl. They meet, talk, spend time with each other and if feel compatible then take a step forward. In love marriages as the boy and girl knows each other from long time they decide to get marry.
Today marriages don’t last for long time because of modern living style, work, independence, boundations in relations according to individual. A relation doesn’t work from one side it is important that both bride and groom understand their responsibility and have faith towards each other. Few decades back only a man used to work but now as women”s also work to help their family financially. In some cases men’s ego comes in between or sometimes they suspect on their wives.
Yes! world is developing and India too is developing in business, economics, arts etc. But Indian religion and beliefs are there where it was in past. And we should not forget our past.
There should be understanding amongst couples. They should be friendly and compatible to each other. They should not be possessive or suspect each other.The only way to be together is to have lots of love and faith among each other. Always ignore the faults and mistakes.
In some cases today people leave each other for their career and high dreams.
Is love enough for marriage?
Are we responsible for our break-ups?
In Haryana a couple is forced to live as siblings for the future. A village Panchayat took decision for a couple to live separately as they are from same “Gotra”.In Hindu Vedas it is written that “Gotra ” should be different of couple and if they share same they are counted as siblings. But is it right that a couple is separated from a relationship to siblings?
Is this the right decision?
Satish Berwal of Kheri village in this district was married to Kavita, a resident of Bhagi village in Jhajjar district, three years ago. The couple also has a 10-month-old boy .In our country, people from any same gotras cannot marry each other as they are considered brother and sister.
Kavita is free to return to her parents’ house along with her son. They have given them an ultimatum of 28 days to follow this order and if they fail to follow the deadline then strict action will be taken against them.The panchayat has also directed Satish’s father Azad Singh to disown his son from all the property and belongings and to deposit Rs 300,000 in the name of his grandson in a bank.
Is this the future that you also think is right for them?
Living in 21st century we are now also following ancient principles is right but in some cases decision should be taken for the good future. what ever has happened is happened but now the decision should be taken by remembering for the future of the child.
Government should interfere in these cases and solve the problem. Supreme court has passed an order in favour of couple. They are given permission to live together as husband and wife.
Is this future of India?
What step should be taken by according to you?